Conversely, some guys view their service like a gourmet banquet. They want a lot of foreplay and far more involved service. They may have certain activities, fetishes, or wants and needs that a quick party cannot solve. The party is going to take more time. Perhaps you want companionship, cuddling, conversation, just the touch of another person and want to savor it. Perhaps you want a long build up to intercourse and want to revisit it over the course of time. Identify that within yourself to determine your wants.

Know What You Want Going In

Communication is key with working ladies. Some men have no problems asking for services and some men are shy about it. Working ladies have to deal with all kinds of men and you can make their job easier by describing what you expect. If you can’t tell the lady what you want, then accept responsibility for failure to communicate. Also, be willing to let a lady tantalize you and help you figure your wants and needs.

Finding the Appropriate Lady

Your mileage may vary (YMMV) is the greatest truth in transacting for paid adult sex. Anyone that tells you any different are full of crap. This is where finding the appropriate lady is the crux to filling your wants and needs.
Back in the section about wants, we talked about guys who wanted quick service. That type of service is considered basic service. Those quickies are basic service, so if that is what you ask for, and not all ladies are doing basic service for the $100-150, you are limiting your options. So weed out the ladies by asking them if they do basic service. The quick act of blow job, hand job or straight lay. If they won’t provide it, it doesn’t matter, even if you wish to pay more. Forget ‘em! Simply identify your type of service to the lady. If she offers it, then and only then can you go negotiate and come to terms. A number of ladies deem themselves above doing short parties. They miss the most basic niche market in the legal brothel industry. If you want a quickie, if you want to get aroused and if you want to get off…no more, no less. You want the Nevada Professional that sees that niche as her specialty. A lot of guys get walked for wanting basic service and a niche of ladies are waiting to catch these guys. They make the crux of their earnings doing basic service and they are damn good at it. Once upon a time in Nevada, that was THE MAIN STAPLE of legendary LPIN. You weren’t looking for a lover, just a hot nut. Well, they are still there and more often than not, they are the most consistent bookers in LPIN. Rural houses know that darn well.

The bigger houses still have those niche ladies. Sometimes they can be gorgeous and sometimes they can be plain Jane. Just know what you want and be prepared to sift through a brothel to find those ladies. Sit and watch the ladies who do quick parties, they're usually busy. Those are your ladies.

So you aren’t a quick start and finish type of guy? Maybe you need or want more than a quick "bust your nut" experience? You will need to find ladies who will engage you in the parlor if the brothel is set up for that. Take your time to make your choice. Some ladies will approach you and others may seem like attitude queens. Don’t let that intimidate you. The ladies who will approach you and take the time to engage you are going to be a better choice for your wants and needs as opposed to finding a lady and going in without any social contact. If a lady is pushy or quick to try to get you to go negotiate, I’ve found that she will likely want to get you in and out quickly, regardless of what you spend. She may go through the motions, but her delivery sucks. Still, if a lady is engaging in the parlor but her demeanor changes during negotiations, take HEED and realize she talks a good talk but her delivery may be wham bam. Forget her, too! Get a connection established and even talk roundabout on your wants and needs in the parlor in a general way. You can gauge her and she can gauge you. That’s what both of you want, anyhow. The negotiations should flow evenly and quickly too. From my most favorable experiences, coming to terms easily and quickly where both of you feel positive is a strong indicator that good things will follow.

Now, anything and everything I’ve told you so far is still subject to YMMV. I can go in, find a lady who meets all the right things on the face of it from parlor engagement to negotiation and then the party goes awry. But the signal signs of conductive business for pleasure, whether it’s basic service or more involved services, are usually pleasing to me. We can all get fooled but you have to get off the dime and take a chance. The lady takes a chance with every guy, too. YMMV.

More About Appropriate Ladies

When I first started visiting brothels, the most attractive women were the ones I booked. I read reviews, met the ladies, and learned not all reviews or ladies were quite what I personally preferred. I booked some drop dead gorgeous ladies and I didn’t walk away completely happy because I was hiring a lady who had nothing working beyond her looks. Then I booked some stunners who had the well earned and deserved reputations and had parties beyond my dreams.

But there is a whole other subject, the ladies who don’t have reputations. The unknowns. Go into a brothel and watch the process. See how ladies and guys intermingle. Watch if a lady takes a guy back and if he resembles close to you. Did he return to the parlor after negotiation with a disgruntled of disaffected look on his face? Did he return after a length of time in a euphoric state? Was he well attended to before the particulars took place and afterward? Those are strong tell tale signs about the lady. Those are things to watch and read in a brothel and it doesn’t matter if you are a first timer or a weary old veteran to the scene.

Sometimes you can meet a lady that defies type casting. For you, she will be who and what you are looking for, while conversely she may be the antithesis to being a highly coveted working lady to the masses. It works like that sometimes. You should keep an open mind to that too.

The way you go and how you present yourself makes a gigantic difference. If you are unshaven and unkempt, NOT GOOD! If you are drunk, NOT GOOD! Be who you are. Be Real. Being nice, being respectful to the lady, having your own self respect and following the Golden Rule of treating people the way you wish to be treated, is very much the KEY to achieving your wants and needs. I can never stress that enough.

You are paying for a service whether it is basic or it is lavish. Your money is hard earned. You deserve to have your wants and needs and what you desire to happen the way you want it. Take the time to think about it before you enter a brothel. Read everything you can on brothel web sites. The house web sites won’t be as objective as the independent ones. Read everything and take it with a grain of salt, even what you read here. Remember YMMV. Go for the sole purpose to enjoy yourself. Be pleasant and you will be pleased.